Signs your Ex Wants You Back

A break up can be a devastating experience and many a times, you may not be able to get through it alone. It gets complicated if you are not sure of how to get past it. While some partners become friends, others make it a do or die situation and let the entire past pass without a care. In other circumstances, they try to find their way back together.

Without a clear direction of where your relationship may be headed to. What happens when you are trying to move on and you think that your ex may still have a soft spot for you? This may come as a mixed feeling so it is best that you are certain about what you are thinking. The following are signs your ex wants you back.

·         Tries to contact you without any solid reason

After a breakup, chances are both parties will be too angry to want to communicate. In an effort to try and open communication channels, your ex will make an effort to contact you. Many a times, they have no concrete reason to call you. They will call and probably say nothing other than a “hi” or giving an excuse that they just wanted to hear your voice. If you are not picking the numbers you know belong to them, they will even go to the extent of using a different phone number. Just as people would say, determination and persistence, you are likely to achieve your objective and in this case, their objective is to have you back.

·         They ask after you

Asking after you is a sign that your ex wants you back and is regretting ever having left. If you notice that your ex is trying to find out how you are faring, he is acting concerned. In the event that you ignore them, they will go an extra mile and ask after how you are doing from your friends and relatives. This is not just mere concern over your well-being.

 

·         Constantly bumps into you

In reference to this, exes who live in the same neighborhood may bump into each other. After a breakup chances are they are both trying to avoid each other even if they live next door to each other. If you notice that you are constantly bumping into your ex, something is up. Probability is that they are doing it on purpose. These “accidental” meetings may not be so accidental. He/she is likely to be trying to rekindle what they lost. What is the probability that you will bump into your ex even at your place of work? Think about it, they are still trying to grab your attention.

·         They try to make significant changes

During the breakup, there are reasons that are given for the breakup. If your ex tries to make these changes and is making an effort that you notice it, then they are likely to be asking for a second chance. This is in an effort to try to mend the situation. Not just everyone is will to change for just anyone. This in many cases is done for someone special in their lives. Keep in mind that people; make changes for themselves out of the blues.   

·         Difficulty moving on

If your ex wants you back, he will not rush into a different relationship. They are likely stranded and cannot simply accept another person into their lives so readily. This dating dilemma is not because they think all people are the same and they want nothing to do with the opposite sex. Under many circumstances, they will take on a rebound rather than stay on their own. You can be sure that you still take a piece of their heart with this sign that your ex wants you back. Your ex will have a difficult moment diving into another relationship. In addition to this, they are more likely to flaunt it so you know.

·         Signs of missing the relationship

Publicly notifying that they are missing the relationship is a head start that they want you back. In this, you will notice that they will write up status updates that they miss you or something you did together, you can be sure they are seeking for attention from you. Other than negative status updates on social media, they may keep liking your tags or your links. This acts as a constant reminder that you have so much in common. This is a public declaration that they are still into you. You are still occupying their mind and they are letting you know.

·         More calls than the regular

Your ex will call you more than they would call a regular friend. Heck….they will call you more than they did during the relationship. In this, he is engaging you very well knowing that he will not be saying much. In many circumstances, they will try to keep the conversation going longer than normal eve when you may hang up on them regularly.

·         Positive and warm comments

As indicated, many couples remain distant and try not to communicate at all. If your ex is still trying to be friendly and they are making positive comments, chances are that they still fancy you. Comments about your dressing, your hair and minor things that even you did not know they looked at such as nails and eyes. They will appear more caring, warm, and loving than you can remember. Even without reason, you will receive a positive comment. Even when your hair is not fixed and you just woke up to pick your newspaper at the door, the will find something positive about the situation they can share with you.  

·         Revival of old memories

In an effort on how to make your ex want you back, many will try to revive the good old memories. They will revive and talk about anniversaries and special moments you shared. They stick to these memories and they will find a way to talk about them with you. In this, they are trying to help you remember what you shared. The key objective here is to rekindle the happy moments and make you fall in love all over again and take them back. This is more than taking you back but keeping you close to them for the time being.

·         Talking about feelings

If your ex is finding it difficult to move on, they are definitely tied to your old relationship. They will try to talk to you about the previous feelings. They try to make it a disbelief that the relationship ended in the way they did. They will talk about the mistakes that happened or how the two of you were perfect together and things like that. They are likely to be preparing you of their intentions.

·         Detective behavior

If your ex is trying to find out about your every move, they are trying to make sure they still have a chance. They may know everything about you during the relationship but they are trying to find out if they still have a chance with you. They will attempt to track your day-to-day activities even when they do not have to talk to you. It satisfies them to see you and just take their time knowing they may work towards an opportunity to get you back.

·         Remedying loose ends

Depending on the reason the two of you broke up, then your ex is trying to talk about it in an attempt to remedy it before it is too late, he is doing it for you. He wants you to know that you can count on him to patch things any time and this is the greatest step they make. They are making you see reason with them. This is a more direct sign that your ex wants you back. This extra effort is not just for nothing.

·         Using their pals to do their bidding

If on more than one occasion your ex’s pals are trying to speak well about your ex, then they are more likely doing it on his behalf even when they do not mention it. They are probably regretting their action and are using a third party to express themselves. They will tell you how much he misses you and will put emphasis on how great it would be if the two of you would get back together.

 

·         Anger issues

If you notice that your ex cannot control their anger when you are around someone they perceive as competition, this is a clear sign that your ex wants you back. This is because they feel like “their territory” is being intruded into. They still have feelings for you and they are not shy about expressing them. Many a times, they are not in a position to control them and they will realize they went this far later in the day.

The above are signs your ex wants you back. They may not all be applicable at the same time but a majority of them will be evident depending on the circumstance. There are other signs that are more obvious such as a clear declaration from them missing you and acting hurt every time they see you having fun without them. With mixed emotions, these ideas will help you out.